This goes back to the point about how trivial most people treat these social networks. There are all sorts of ways you can see this disrespect. Not only do all sorts of fake personas, Fakesters, faux personalities appear, but some folks seem to delight in attaining the most friends (like me!) for no reason at all - except to do it.
I was ranked something like 4th or 5th in the overall Orkut race - when it went down on Sunday. I'm trying hard to hold steady at 444 friends on Tribe. On Friendster I grew bored at around 100 friends.
I see social networking in the same way I think of multimedia or the Internet - it's an inevitable state of technology - which everyone will use on a daily basis in the future. What software ISN'T about people?
Today's crude, stand alone social networks will soon be replaced by the social networking FEATURE being built into magazines, portals, blogging tools and storage lockers. Every brand and important technical entity will have their own MyBlahBlahBlah.
It's a hybrid combination of tools, digital lifestyle aggregation and social networking.
Not treating these social networks with respect really pisses off danah boyd, but I kind of think it's pretty funny. I enjoy piling up and combining friends from all over the technical, multimedia, open source, digital artists, blogging and Burning Man universes. All sorts of people have met each other through my networks.
Though I'm no Joi Ito - but I play one in a Soap Opera.
danah thinks we should treat these relationships more seriously. Or somehow believe that by calling someone a 'friend' in an explicit social networking environment - actually means something.
People are having fun, clicking on each other's face, leaving testimonials, posting on boards and assoicating themselves with clustered 'groups, tribes, communities, networks' (they go by all sorts of names.) What's wrong with that?
If someone can pay for the servers and bandwidth - then god bless them.
I'm kind of hoping that folks like Tucows and the Internet Archive can host FOAF based open source versions of these sorts of social networks (such as our PeopleAggregator) and we'll all inter-connect these networks together - because we all support FOAF.
So you might as well get used to 'making friends' - 'cause you're gonna be defining your relationship to other people and entities - for the rest of your life. As Doc says.... all kinds of new opportunities open up.... based on the participation of demand in the process of supply.
That is "once we get two way relationships going" - end-user contributions and personal publishing will FAR exceed the current day media's stranglehold. Web Services, personal publishing, social networking, digital lifestyle aggregation and communication - will all go hand in hand - in ALL of tomorrow's software.
They'll all be just features. And available in open source form.
Shared K-Collector topics: FOAF | Open Standards | PeopleAggregator | Tribe.net

These folks totally groks it..... (their names are Grant and Cyndie Berg.)

The absolute best thing about Orkut - is that it was one of those memes that starts off on a Friday morning in your Inbox and by TGIF time - the whole blogsphere is talking about it.